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I really want to know if there is a form of words that one can give at the start of the job that precludes this situation without giving offence.
Where would I find This?I don't understand from your description what happened in your case, but a standard-form small works contract normally covers such issues. Look for the sections referring to 'control of works' and/or 'autonomy'.
But you said that you gave up trying to fix it so he stepped in and bodged itHe screwed up the installation, and expected me to bodge a repair. Essentially called me precious for not gunking everything in silicone to stop the leak that he caused.
Ideally, you'd get your solicitor to review your standard terms and conditions and make sure that they cover the circumstances you have in mind. You can find/buy boilerplate (and copies of standard terms that you can use for inspiration) online but remember the old saying 'The man who is his own lawyer has a fool for a client.'Where would I find This?
No watchers no DIY help, they are the rules walk away CentralheatkingWhat do you do when the customer is a DIYer who insists on getting involved?
Reply to the thread, titled "DIY customers getting involved" which is posted in DIY Plumbing Advice on Plumbers Forums.
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