Well Peter where do you want me to start? As heating engineers whether domestic or commercial & I really do not see any difference between the two, (I have done both) they require exactly the same levels of knowledge, understanding & professionalism.
Systems in the past have being sized correctly to match the heat losses & then at least 10% has been added to allow a capacity to heat the rooms up from cold, known as intermittent heating (& not to hold a steady stat). Not having the benefit of the details of your house & system it is difficult to comment but I bet you leave your heating on longer than most when it gets cold & that's not a bad thing but you should know the why's.
Re the condensing please have a look at my earlier post, it is not the differential that is important but the returning water temp back to the boiler. (less than 53deg C)
I agree with you about the modern controls but it is not just the wireless stats you can get the same results if you exchanged your old mechanical / electrical room stat for an electronic one & they only cost a couple of £ more than the normal Honeywell ones.
All the manufactures use the same types of heat exchangers with small waterways (I would not install one without protecting it with a filter on the return before it) they are all trying to come up with boilers which will adjust there heat outputs automatically right the way down as low as possible to match the required heat output with the demand thus maintaining a cool return water temp & a boiler that is up to 13% more efficient that exactly the same one that not condensing. 13% saving!!!! in any other industry if I could offer that, people would be biting my arm off.
I appreciate that I should have mentioned the size of my house for my post to make any sense - thought of that after posting!
4 bedrooms, two bathrooms, 25' lounge, dining room, 30' kitchen, utility room, large hall with two staircases. It has been updated insulation-wise to the latest spec.
I know you're going to tell me that the boiler is too small chris, but in practice it works.
Previously, the room stat was in the hall, near the front door - totally bonkers.
The mobility of the wireless stat has allowed me to manage the heating in a very different way, and no, the boiler's not running a lot. My gas bill for last winter was 30% down on the previous year - which was somewhat colder, but then I was on a price fixed rate for the previous years - so I was well pleased.
The simple basis of it is that the stat is in the lounge for waking hours, and in the bedroom at nights. Because of the high level of insulation I can switch the double radiator in the lounge off at bedtime, and the temperature drop during the night is only a couple of degrees. The hall and stairs are kept at a background temperature. I have lowered the temperature in the kitchen because it's only used for cooking, which raises the temperature anyway, plus the kitchen retains heat pretty well too. The other thing I did was to fit a door closer on the lounge door.
I was tempted to buy timers for the TRV's, but thought better of it, as they don't come cheap, and I'm cautious about their life span.
Have to disagree about staying with a fixed room stat, i.e. having a mobile stat makes a world of difference and opens up a range of options that are not possible with the fixed variety.
The Valliant handbook states that there needs to be a 20 degree differential between F & R for the boiler to be in condensing mode.
If the temperature in the house was allowed to drop right down in a cold winter, then the boiler would have a right sweat on (it's like a steam train when it gets going on a cold day as it is), but it never does.
The other choice in the Valliant range was 28 KW, and I thought long and hard about going for the bigger model, but having had the 18.5 for five years, I have no regrets.
But in theory it's the wrong choice.