How to win my girl back!

[Dannypipe]

Pull a really fit bird, to make her green with envy. Easier said than done, but it works!!

You're probably in your early 20's??? Don't want to sound patronising but a lot of our early rellationships are a warm up to the real deal. Where you have trust, mutual respect and friendship.

Most of us have been there in the on/off on off rellationships..... and personally looking back, they were a waste of time. Because most of the time, the final outcome is off. We just don't like dealing with the pain off that empty feeling when it ends. If you can deal with it, learn from it, and move on. You will grow and be happier in the long run.

 

[Billy Bob Bob]

plumbers giving relationship advice i can see it now,give her a thorough service and tickle her test point nipples,this can only go terribly wrong

 

[John_]

Is this the way to go nowadays - plumbers turn into counselling? 🙂

My contribution if it worths anything - go with the flow, if you both enjoy the company why rush it, let time do the talking. Good luck!

 

[gavinwilson]

As Danny said do her sister/best mate... Joke just back off a bit let her decide what she wants just don't let her take the p

sent from my annoying box

 

[julesverne]

They may love the bling, regrettably my bank account does not!

Thats why cubic zirconia was invented

 

[KingDoey]

Thanks for all the replies folks. In response to Dannypipe I am 24 mate, had a few serious relationships but realised shes the one for me. Just wish I could of dealt with things better at the time. But you live and learn and if its meant to be it will....

Just gonna go with the flow and enjoy the positives. Not force it and see where it goes from there.

Thank you all

God Bless

 

[SimonG]

....and who said plumbers are heartless rip off merchants?

Come to UKPF, we care.

 

[Billy Bob Bob]

Thanks for all the replies folks. In response to Dannypipe I am 24 mate, had a few serious relationships but realised shes the one for me. Just wish I could of dealt with things better at the time. But you live and learn and if its meant to be it will....

Just gonna go with the flow and enjoy the positives. Not force it and see where it goes from there.

Thank you all

God Bless

i was 23 when i met my wife,2 kids and 12 years later we are still strong ,i would still bang her mate though......hang on cant married LOL

 

[John_]

Speaking of time do the talking, took me 10 years to have the courage to propose to my wife, now coming up to 10 years marriage, still going strong. Wish I had propose earlier so I could call my business *** and son as my son will now be old enough. Always like that 🙂

 

[hunterseye]

i agree with the above mentioned. its all mind games with women so you have to play um at their own game. DO NOT appear needy as stated above. even if its killing you inside you act like your feathers have hardly been ruffled.
when shes telling you things she'll be looking for your reaction.
let her know the balls in her court and you'll go with her choice then back off and mention it no more.
this way your being subtle at being hard to get.
failing that my friend. rohypnol....haha i kid. use a big stick.

 

[shannonwells830]

Be patient...show her that you can be trusted. Make her feel secure all the time.

 

[lottie90]

Hmmm no sure I agree with the women in your wallets all the time lads, if they are you've got the wrong girls, however the original problem.... Sounds like when u was in the relationship everything 'relaxed' ie dinner, dates and all that jazz ( honey moon period over).... Now that u are dating your both having fun, she may just be worried that if you get into your 'relationship' again then it might go back to the 'relaxed' mode yet again.
you said she says she loves u, I'd believe her when she says that... So may be make a deal that if you get into the relationship, the fun won't end... You'll still do something once a week at least like pubs, walking, feed the ducks haha jut so long as u promise there will be time for you two!

 

[KingDoey]

Hmmm no sure I agree with the women in your wallets all the time lads, if they are you've got the wrong girls, however the original problem.... Sounds like when u was in the relationship everything 'relaxed' ie dinner, dates and all that jazz ( honey moon period over).... Now that u are dating your both having fun, she may just be worried that if you get into your 'relationship' again then it might go back to the 'relaxed' mode yet again.
you said she says she loves u, I'd believe her when she says that... So may be make a deal that if you get into the relationship, the fun won't end... You'll still do something once a week at least like pubs, walking, feed the ducks haha jut so long as u promise there will be time for you two!

Hi Lottie thanks for reply...

Yeah thats basically what we have agreed. Thats where it 100% went wrong we just got into the rut of sitting round each others houses. All my money went on beer and clothes and weekends away with the boys... Not saying im gna pay for everything but I do need to spend a bit more on her.

Yeah she has already told me that if it goes back to how it was i am history! Thing is I realise now that I need to try harder, just hope she gives me a chance to do that!!

 

[Guest123]

I was engaged 3 times. The one who I married could run faster than me, so got caught. Love her to bits really.

UKPlumbingForum TRA Trusted Relationship Advisor.

Just go bang the pants of her, make her howl and she'll come back for more.

 

[Dotty]

Just go bang the pants of her, make her howl and she'll come back for more.

And I thought my Neanderthal approach was bad! Lol

 

[Barry98]

I think you should go round croppie for a girls night in and a chat , wuss

 

[Kyle87]

Just stop sleeping with her. Tell her you want to make it work and therefore build the relationship from the ground up.

Lame..... But it will show commitment

 

[Dotty]

I think you should go round croppie for a girls night in and a chat , wuss

Gonna slap you monkey boy! Lol

 

[Barry98]

You're lass will have something on to stop you coming to the main land

 

[Guest123]

You're lass will have something on to stop you coming to the main land

I know, let's all go to Croppies house. I'm sure all us plumbers will receive a warm welcome.