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You are undoing the connections and not trying to turn the braiding / hose part ?
Was trying to unscrew next to hose…Can you upload a picture of the part ?
Reply to the thread, titled "Shower Hose Removal both ends" which is posted in Showers and Wetrooms Advice on Plumbers Forums.
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