If you take the low fire literally then the boiler ignites at ~ 6.5kw which @ 9 LPM gives a deltaT of 10.4C which should allow a SP of 35C (25C return) without problems, Viessmann can advise as to whether it actually does ignite at these low settings or not, if it doesn't then IMO that is the likely culprit for this very rapid cycling.
Also as was suggested above if the UFH demand is < 6.5kw then the boiler will also cycle but should certainly fire for number of minutes except in the very unlikely event that no heat is being extracted by the UFH.
You can reduce the max output as shown in pages 35/36, the instructions are not quite clear to me as it shows a tap symbol with 60C, if they are clear to you then I would reduce the output to minimum as well and see does it help to get the boiler away.
Not having a dedicated manifold pump shouldn,t affect the life of the boiler circ pump in any way.
Also as was suggested above if the UFH demand is < 6.5kw then the boiler will also cycle but should certainly fire for number of minutes except in the very unlikely event that no heat is being extracted by the UFH.
You can reduce the max output as shown in pages 35/36, the instructions are not quite clear to me as it shows a tap symbol with 60C, if they are clear to you then I would reduce the output to minimum as well and see does it help to get the boiler away.
Not having a dedicated manifold pump shouldn,t affect the life of the boiler circ pump in any way.