Probably the most bang on post about the modern day customer.
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That is the sort of crap we have to put up with on regular basis now . People are usualy rude or ignorant and full of their self importance nowadays
You know Hammers, your post really dismays me. Not because of its content but because it's so "bang on".
The narcissism (self importance) and sense of 'entitlement' of those below 50 is the principal reason I decided on having only 'older' customers because they were always more empathetic and considerate in general.
When on the tools I quickly discovered that some people were simply not worth working for - no matter what I thought I could charge. The negativity sucked the very life blood from you so, somehow, it always took a day or even two to recover. Eventually I learned to 'just say no' to them in the first place or, if they treated me as your example, start to pack up and just walk out or give them an ultimatum at the time. Let's face it, you'll never go back so it's no loss!
Unfortunately ALL self employed tradespeople feel imprisoned by ar5seholes. Fact is however we are NOT. We are imprisioned by our irrational fear of the unknown. MY release from that fear came when I walked out of a job and a neighbour stopped me and I explained in a huff that I'd had enough. Here response was, "In that case can you do a job for me?" She'd learned that people who rebelled were the people she liked!
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What I'm trying to say here, is that if you don't feel right just bl00dy say so. You are entitled for all manner of reasons to air your views so just do it. You don't have to be rude. In your example, you might say, "Sorry, but for safety reasons you cannot start preparing food till I am finished. If you insist, then I'll shall stop work immediately." If they get shitty, you simply persist. "Okay Mrs pig, your choice. Me to finish this job or you cook. Please choose."
Just make sure you get paid for what you've done before you leave
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One last thing. None of these scroats have ANY impact on your life or business. NONE will put DECENT people off. Only ar5eholes love an ar5ehole so you don't want 'em anyway.
VIVE LA REVOLUTION
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